{"id":1593,"date":"2020-12-01T18:23:56","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T15:23:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.grafas.org\/demo05\/?page_id=1593"},"modified":"2026-01-24T09:52:19","modified_gmt":"2026-01-24T08:52:19","slug":"erwin-steijlen","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/erwin-steijlen\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2014 Erwin Steijlen"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"1593\" class=\"elementor elementor-1593\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-673110c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"673110c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3afb89c\" data-id=\"3afb89c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b845d81 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b845d81\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Internationaal componist, <br>dichter, spreker en <br>artist of change<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9332e50 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9332e50\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;_animation_delay&quot;:300}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>&#8220;De grootste roeping van je leven is worden wat je bent&#8221;<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-64c3317 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"64c3317\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26653fa e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"26653fa\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2013d9f elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"2013d9f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fa27a8c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fa27a8c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Ontmoet <br>\u2014 Erwin Steijlen<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-18ad8da elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"18ad8da\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h5><strong>Ik weet hoe het is om alles kwijt te raken: werk, zekerheid, vrienden. Ik weet hoe het is om wakker te liggen, angstig, vastgelopen. Ik heb mijn weg terug gevonden door radicaal trouw te blijven aan mijn innerlijke stem. Ik heb de 5 Stappen al vaak doorlopen. Ze werken, altijd, ze zijn universeel.<\/strong><\/h5>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4bfc2bd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4bfc2bd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Mijn naam is Erwin Steijlen en ik ben de oprichter van SelfSo. Je zult mij veel gaan zien en horen als je meedoet aan onze programma\u2019s. Ik ben vader van zoon Sascha en dochter Bo, ben zelf een zoon van twee geweldige mensen en de man van Linda, een kunstenares die prachtige sieraden en andere kunst maakt.\u00a0 De titels op mijn cv zijn naast componist en dichter ook schrijver, performer, spreker en cultureel ondernemer en ik ben zeker een zelfverklaard \u2018creactivist\u2019, Dat is iemand die creativiteit op een activistische manier inzet voor een betere maatschappij.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a371edd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a371edd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Maar boven alles ben ik een mens die leeft om te maken. Ik geloof dat het antwoord op wie we zijn, altijd schuilt in &#8216;het doen&#8217;. SelfSo is het verlengstuk van mijn persoonlijke verandering: een manier om via kennis, kunst en inspiratie anderen te helpen hun vuur terug te vinden. Creativiteit is een levensbehoefte. 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class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><a href=\"#\">Mijn vorige leven<\/a><\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-17b827f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"17b827f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ik heb geprobeerd mee te doen. En ik was goed in meedoen. Tenminste maatschappelijk gezien. Grote merken als BMW, Netflix, Pink!, Nike en Cirque du Soleil werkten met mij samen. Ik bond ze aan me door mijn creativiteit en mijn eigen &#8216;Music First&#8217;-methode.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-48bec97 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"48bec97\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ik speelde over de hele wereld, sprak voor CEO\u2019s, leidde shows en schreef muziek voor honderden tv-series en reclames. De buitenwereld noemde het succes. Maar ik voelde de leegte groeien. Mijn stem werd zachter, mijn lijf protesteerde. Ik was een succesvolle, creatieve kracht in een corporate wereld, maar steeds verder van mezelf verwijderd.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6712ec elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c6712ec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Ik liep vast<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3836e3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e3836e3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Toen de wereld stilviel in 2020, viel ook ik stil. De reactie van de wereld op Covid, een collectieve angst voor ziekte, legde niet alleen mijn werk stil, maar ook mijn leven.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-017a684 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"017a684\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-554917a\" data-id=\"554917a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9116bf2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"9116bf2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4630ce2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4630ce2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><a href=\"#\">Het breekpunt<\/a><\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1d6b439 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1d6b439\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Mijn zakenpartner pleegde zelfmoord<\/strong>. Ik verloor richting, vertrouwen, inkomen \u2014 en bijna ook mezelf. Ik raakte overspoeld door vragen: Waarom ben ik hier? Waarom voelt het allemaal zo verkeerd? Na een vreselijke donkere tijd begon ik te studeren en wat ik leerde schreef ik op, nachtenlang, zonder bedoeling, behalve als redmiddel voor mezelf.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c3e6e0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6c3e6e0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Gedichten kwamen plots als vanzelf<\/strong>. Woorden op rijm. Eerst uit frustratie, toen uit noodzaak. Ik begreep eerst zelf niet waarom, maar mijn vrouw zei: \u201cDeel het.\u201d En toen ik dat deed, gebeurde er iets bijzonders. Mensen herkenden zich in mijn woorden, in mijn zoektocht.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61428af elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"61428af\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Ik bleek niet alleen in mijn transitie.<\/strong><\/p><p>Ik dook in filosofie, psychologie en kwantumtheorie. Ik begon 5000 jaar geleden bij Plato, Aristoteles en Marcus Aurelius. Ik werkte me via Schopenhauer, Kierkegaard, de geweldige Carl Jung\u00a0 door de eeuwen heen naar hedendaagse helden als Rollo May, James Hillman, Joseph Campbell, Bernardo Kastrup en Federico Faggin.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb74a62 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"bb74a62\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a83dc52\" data-id=\"a83dc52\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e62e450 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"e62e450\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-666aefc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"666aefc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><a href=\"#\">De ommekeer<\/a><\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f053f60 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f053f60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ik had een andere kijk op mezelf en de wereld nodig. Ik had antwoorden nodig en moest leren vertrouwen op mijn eigen mens zijn, mijn eigen reden van bestaan. Ik moest \u00e9cht mijn eigen weg gaan en mijn roeping volgen.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bc7f39a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bc7f39a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Van Dabrowski, een Poolse psycholoog\/filosoof leerde ik, en dat was wereldschokkend nieuws voor mij, <strong>dat ik niet faalde maar groeide!<\/strong> Dat ik niet meer terug kon naar de oude ik en enkel door kon groeien. Wat er ook gebeuren zou, terug, was geen optie meer.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e762f42 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e762f42\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Ik ontdekte dat mijn lijden niet het einde was, maar het begin<\/strong>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6965a66 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6965a66\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Elke ochtend zat ik om 05:00 uur te schrijven. Mijn dromen werkten met me samen. Ze stuurden me. Het schrijven redde me. Het maakte me weer de &#8216;maker&#8217;, die ik altijd al was.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-694c89d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"694c89d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ik was gegroeid. Ik doorliep zonder het te beseffen &#8216;De 5 Stappen naar Verandering&#8217;. Ik was weer dichter bij mijn essentie, letterlijk &#8216;dichter&#8217; bij mijn <strong>Authentieke Zelf. SelfSo<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a96f4a9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"a96f4a9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-591780a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"591780a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c1d291 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"4c1d291\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d530125 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d530125\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Mijn vorige leven...<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f5d14d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6f5d14d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7cdad7 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"b7cdad7\" data-element_type=\"container\" 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data-id=\"4246b1e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a23ec1e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a23ec1e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Een nieuwe weg<\/h2><p>Ik besloot mijn leven niet langer in dienst te stellen van geld of systemen. Ik werk nu maximaal 4 dagen per maand voor geld. De rest van de tijd leef ik voor groei: lezend, studerend, schrijvend, delend en helpend. Ik geef lezingen en\u00a0 perform mijn Audio Poems: po\u00ebzie, muziek en film, live en eenmalig. Niet als verdienmodel, maar als gift. Want wat ik ontvang, geef ik door.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-90b7efd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"90b7efd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Mijn pad is niet uniek, maar wel universeel. Iedereen komt op het punt dat iets ouds moet sterven om iets nieuws te laten groeien.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c5dd12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9c5dd12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>De nieuwe weg is ook een nieuw model: waarin een empathische wetenschap samenwerkt met een rationele spiritualiteit. Waar denken en voelen niet tegenover elkaar staan, maar elkaar versterken. Waar menselijkheid weer leidend is.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-feee68a elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"feee68a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ad8909 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2ad8909\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>SelfSo<\/h2><p>En hier is het dan, mijn levenswerk; SelfSo: een lesprogramma en artistieke beweging die mensen helpt terug te keren naar hun essentie. Ik spreek, schrijf, componeer en begeleid. Niet als ingehuurd expert, maar als medemens. Als gids. Mijn boodschap is simpel:<\/p><p><strong>Word wat je bent. Maak wat je voelt. En geef het door.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f14678 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8f14678\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Want elk mens die verandert, verandert het systeem.<\/p><p>Je bent wat je doet en het antwoord dat je zoekt, schuilt in het maken.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-97e55f4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"97e55f4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f7e04ed elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f7e04ed\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a2a584f\" data-id=\"a2a584f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e8f907d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e8f907d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"text-base\"><strong>Symptoms<\/strong><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"text-base\">When you deny parts of yourself,<br \/>komen ze terug als symptomen<br \/>The worst thing that can happen<br \/>is leven tussen mensen zonder dromen<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"text-base\">Where, lonely and surrounded by complaints,<br \/>you will suffer and have to fight<br \/>tegen steeds groter wordende pijnen<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"text-base\">Want ze keren hoe dan ook terug<br \/>Disguised as symptoms,\nthese monsters from your dreams<br \/>deze monsters uit je dromen<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"text-base\">De oplossing is altijd dezelfde<br \/>Stop denying.\nAnd start recognising<br \/>en je eigen kracht 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https:\/\/selfso.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Waartijd-cover-199x300.png 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e9479d0 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e9479d0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-24d2a81 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"24d2a81\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Waartijd<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b9d493a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b9d493a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\"><p class=\"font-146910 fontsize-125007 text-color-jevc-color\"><strong>Verandering omarmen en jezelf opnieuw uitvinden.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><p class=\"clear\">\u00a0<\/p><\/div><div class=\"heading-text el-text\"><p class=\"font-146910 h6 fontheight-353583 font-weight-400 text-color-jevc-color\">\u2018Waartijd&#8217; is een boek over verandering. Een boek vol persoonlijke gedichten over groei, connectie, hoop, toekomst, angst, relaties, liefde en de dood. Veel van Erwin\u2019s teksten zijn universeel en ze zullen mensen aanzetten om ook hun eigen pad te volgen en zichzelf als mens te tonen.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"clear\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><p class=\"font-146910 h6 fontheight-353583 font-weight-400 text-color-jevc-color\">Gedachten op papier maken daden van je dromen. Woorden over lijden en strijden, over verdriet, dood, leven en kunst, over liefde en hoop. Woorden als uiting van de menselijke zucht naar connectie.<\/p><p class=\"clear\">\u00a0<\/p><\/div><p><span class=\"btn-container\"><a class=\"custom-link btn btn-custom-typo font-555555 font-weight-800 text-initial no-letterspace border-width-0 btn-accent btn-icon-left\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bol.com\/nl\/nl\/p\/waartijd\/9300000172373113\/?bltgh=nSGbFdf68JFD1-o0j-BEJg.2_6.8.ProductTitle\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">KOOP BOEK<\/a><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9e36306 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"9e36306\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0c671f2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"0c671f2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a8b5198 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a8b5198\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>\u00a0&#8216;Kinderen in hun Kracht&#8217; benefietavond kinderkanker in Concertgebouw Amsterdam<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c7012ea elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"c7012ea\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;vimeo&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<iframe class=\"elementor-video-iframe\" allowfullscreen allow=\"clipboard-write\" title=\"vimeo Video Player\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/1084558162?color&amp;autopause=0&amp;loop=0&amp;muted=0&amp;title=1&amp;portrait=1&amp;byline=1&amp;h=45d903c6f6#t=\" data-no-translation-title=\"\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f35e32b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f35e32b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7bf924b elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"7bf924b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c13e449 elementor-widget elementor-widget-testimonial\" data-id=\"c13e449\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"testimonial.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-content\">\"Beste Erwin,\nHet is deze week precies een maand geleden alweer! Via deze weg wil ik je enorm bedanken voor je waardevolle bijdrage voor de bijzondere benefietavond Kinderen in hun Kracht op 7 mei jl.\nDoor jouw inzet en betrokkenheid hebben we dit bijzondere initiatief van het Concertgebouw van Amsterdam, het Conservatorium van Amsterdam, Stichting Muziekids en de Vereniging Kinderkanker Nederland mogelijk kunnen maken. We hebben met deze unieke samenwerking ons gemeenschappelijke doel bereikt: de kracht van muziek laten zien in het leven van kinderen en jongeren met en na kinderkanker!\"<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-meta elementor-has-image elementor-testimonial-image-position-aside\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-meta-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"333\" height=\"478\" src=\"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Foto-Mildred-Klarenbeek.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-4226\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Foto-Mildred-Klarenbeek.png 333w, https:\/\/selfso.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Foto-Mildred-Klarenbeek-209x300.png 209w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-details\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-name\">Mildred Klarenbeek <\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-testimonial-job\">Directeur Kinderkanker Nederland<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d7cbf8b elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"d7cbf8b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Internationaal componist, dichter, spreker en artist of change &#8220;De grootste roeping van je leven is worden wat je bent&#8221; Ontmoet Erwin Steijlen Ik weet hoe het is om alles kwijt te raken: werk, zekerheid, vrienden. Ik weet hoe het is om wakker te liggen, angstig, vastgelopen. Ik heb mijn weg terug gevonden door radicaal trouw&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":true,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"hide","_kad_post_layout":"fullwidth","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"unboxed","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"hide","_kad_post_feature":"hide","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1593","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1593"}],"version-history":[{"count":30,"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1593\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13382,"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1593\/revisions\/13382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/selfso.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}